tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158602962866970259.post8754907470168849550..comments2022-04-15T00:13:34.916-04:00Comments on Lazy Cat Farm: Dear Diary: May 6, 2008Dalenehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00375594629000548739noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158602962866970259.post-59439582495363944702009-05-22T00:07:54.595-04:002009-05-22T00:07:54.595-04:00This is a tough entry for me to comment on becaus...This is a tough entry for me to comment on because I have avoided thinking about what she went through, I can't do it I just can't. If I ever know my daughter suffered inside of me and I had no clue I cannot live with myself. How dare my baby suffer and her own mother didn't know a damn thingSamariahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02181464862188284228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158602962866970259.post-21907957957669262872009-05-14T17:51:00.000-04:002009-05-14T17:51:00.000-04:00Ohhh you added a picture of the ring! It is a bea...Ohhh you added a picture of the ring! It is a beautiful and touching tribute to your beautiful boy - but how I wish you had your baby here with you, instead of a ring. As always, hope you and little bean are well.Mirahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17503852952887287539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158602962866970259.post-10890083812766238452009-05-11T20:58:00.000-04:002009-05-11T20:58:00.000-04:00What a perfect tribute to Baker. You should post a...What a perfect tribute to Baker. You should post a picture of the ring, I'd love to see it.<br />I hope none of our babies suffered,ever. sighs.k@laklyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05366772609212990882noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158602962866970259.post-74702417632342794142009-05-10T16:00:00.000-04:002009-05-10T16:00:00.000-04:00It's hard not to wonder about the moments before d...It's hard not to wonder about the moments before death. A dear friend of mine was killed my freshman year of college - his mother told me she dreamed that in his last moments, Jesus came to his side and was with him while he passed, and that he was at peace and comfortable, even though the circumstances of his death were very violent. I found that image comforting - an angel of mercy being with you at your moment of passing. Perhaps that image would be of help to babylost parents as well? In anycase I think the babies feel their parents' love, even as they pass. <br /><br />I have to second (third?) the sentiments about Chris - what a wonderful tribute to Baker, that he thought of even through his own grief.<br /><br />Thinking of you on this Mother's Day. ((Hugs))Mirahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17503852952887287539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158602962866970259.post-41657155029425511132009-05-09T16:01:00.000-04:002009-05-09T16:01:00.000-04:00Sending hugs and hoping you have a gentle Mother's...Sending hugs and hoping you have a gentle Mother's Day.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158602962866970259.post-14255958902018886612009-05-09T13:40:00.000-04:002009-05-09T13:40:00.000-04:00In my darkest moment, I feel so sure my daughter m...In my darkest moment, I feel so sure my daughter must have suffered. The random panic attack I had the last day I felt her move. Her appearance at birth, not at peace, like all her being struggled mightily. I don't know how to live with this.<br /><br />I love the story of your ring, and it sounds just beautiful. Like many, my husband D and I each got the same tattoo, a permanent mark to honour our girl - this was one of the first real acts and outings I was able to accomplish in those first few months, after.melkahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16284350862682460799noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158602962866970259.post-25012519392449093082009-05-08T21:12:00.000-04:002009-05-08T21:12:00.000-04:00Dalene,
I hate the fact that this diary must exis...Dalene,<br /><br />I hate the fact that this diary must exist but I think you are an incredibly strong mom. I want to wish you a Happy Mother's Day but I know it won't be entirely happy. A mother shouldn't have to be without her child. I hope you will cherish the happy memories you have of Baker - him moving around inside of you, reading to him, and anticipating his life. I'll be thinking of you on Sunday.<br /><br />Love,<br />KimKimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17823350540862408736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158602962866970259.post-57886570706415592882009-05-08T20:36:00.000-04:002009-05-08T20:36:00.000-04:00Your husband sounds wonderful. I, too, hate thinki...Your husband sounds wonderful. I, too, hate thinking of my baby's final moments. Mostly I shut it out because I think it would send me over the edge if I allowed myself to think about it for more than a minute at a time. I hope you have a peaceful weekend.CLChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08030787972960755420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158602962866970259.post-40379272247487381772009-05-08T13:25:00.000-04:002009-05-08T13:25:00.000-04:00That husband of yours is a keeper. What a beautif...That husband of yours is a keeper. What a beautiful memento to have on a difficult day like Mother's Day.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09211028670642739808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158602962866970259.post-71668805505636880662009-05-08T12:33:00.000-04:002009-05-08T12:33:00.000-04:00We keep telling ourselves that Teddy felt us lovin...We keep telling ourselves that Teddy felt us loving him, but I have so many of these same worries.<br /><br />I'm glad that you and Chris were able to do something meaningful and loving on Mother's Day. The ring sounds beautiful.ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06347057746449071812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158602962866970259.post-67427135366294438672009-05-08T00:55:00.000-04:002009-05-08T00:55:00.000-04:00What a lovely way to remember. Whatever Baker may ...What a lovely way to remember. Whatever Baker may have felt, he also felt your love.Mrs. Spithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03386820063407910064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158602962866970259.post-76160297501124395562009-05-08T00:20:00.000-04:002009-05-08T00:20:00.000-04:00Those are the thoughts that could truly push me ov...Those are the thoughts that could truly push me over the edge. Did he suffer? Did he know? Did he feel loved? Did he try to tell me something was wrong, did he reach out, in his last moments? Was he conscious? Was he sleeping? Was he scared? I can't handle those thoughts for long. They devastate me.Inannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03696628144350223948noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158602962866970259.post-72166522339409726242009-05-07T23:56:00.000-04:002009-05-07T23:56:00.000-04:00I love the idea of the ring, it sounds beautiful.I love the idea of the ring, it sounds beautiful.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15153969911477489767noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5158602962866970259.post-63015332422155758662009-05-07T21:50:00.000-04:002009-05-07T21:50:00.000-04:00I too hate thinking about Hope being sick. The inf...I too hate thinking about Hope being sick. The infection made it in to her lungs and liver. I hated hearing that. My poor baby, I can't believe that happened to her while I thought she was safe and sound inside me. How could I have not known? I too hope our babies didn't suffer and that they felt the warm love.<br />Hope you, Chris and Baker's brother are well.Hope's Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04984543289642681339noreply@blogger.com